i felt it. friday night. returned the i love you. no weirdness. it feels right. this one is the one. besides just feeling it, i have noticed myself acting differently than i have in past relationships.
namely, i don’t want to change him.
i can live with his quirks and flaws and imperfections. even the SNORING. and in return, he will live with mine. the positives far outweigh the negatives.
thinking that you can find a mate who has no negative traits is setting yourself up for a lifetime of dissapointment.
nagging always has the opposite effect. dwelling on things that you can’t change is the fastest way to drive yourself crazy.
if i want to get some sleep, i need to suck it up and invest in a good pair of ear plugs.